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writes:The other day I was shopping for some things with my mum and dad. We had a sales guy advising us on what to buy etc...He seemed really nice and cute. I recognised him cause I had seen him at our local shopping centre and I asked if he lived in the same suburb as me and he said yes. Turns out he lives a few streets away!Anyway I kinda like him. Mum thinks he may have a crush on me too. He kept blushign when talking to me. And when I asked him before I left the store if I just ring the store up to book a time for my car to be fixed, he said 'yeah or you can just come into the store and make an appointment here'...I dont knwo why he would suggest for me to come into the store when its so much easier jus to ring up. Mum said she thinks maybe he wants to see me again? What do you guys think? I did a test- I got a friend to go to the same store and ask about how to make a booking and they said yeah just ring up later. They didnt tell her to come back to the store to make the appointment, so its not something they all suggest. What do you guys thinks? And how do I go about somehow seeing him outside of his work? I really want to see him but im not sure how to go aout geting to across that I like him, in hope that he will make a move. I guess I could go back to his store to make that appointment. But how else can i make it obvious that i like him?any ideas? thanks!
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (25 August 2007):
He might want to see you again, or he might just charm you into coming back to buy something. You probably aren't going to make him make a first move, especially if he is working. It might not look professional in the eyes of co-workers and his boss. On top of that, you tell us what your mother thinks, was she there at the time or did you just discuss this ith her after you were there? If she had been there, that would be awkward for him to ask you out with a parent standing right there.
Just look at this in the way you would for any other potential relationship. How would you go about this if he had just been a guy on the street or a customer at the store? The advantage is that you know where he is going to be, the disadvantage is that he cannot make a move since he is at work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): Yes, of course there is a possibility that he likes you... BUT on the other hand a sales guy's job IS! to be "nice and cute," so as to sell his merchandise and promote images, right. The blushing indicates he is somewhat shy. Some shy people can use amability to disguise their not being so adaptable... to others it comes naturally, sure. Go back to his store to make that appointment, you have nothing to lose if you question him about other products etc. Careful, some boys will like the attention, but then there's always the opposite. And you live in the same neighbourhood, who knows. I wouldn't make illusions though, you don't know much about him, dear. You like what he's shown you in a particular day. A day doesn't speak much about a person. A person can speak about a day....
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