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writes:Ok, so basically i just want to know peoples views on whether this girl likes me or not based on stuff thats happened. I've know this girl for ages, we stopped talking and hanging out for about a year but recently we started talking again and have been meeting up all week just in general.It comes across as she likes me, asks me if i want to go out for a bit, we tickle fight, play at the park (yes i know, we're big kids), we make each other laugh to the point of hurting and just generally have a really good time together. She also does flirty stuff like poke my abs, slap my ass, bullies me and laughs at a lot of my jokes.By the way, the last three guys she's been with have cheated, treated her badly and just been really bad to and for her. The last one she broke up with was about a month ago, she now hates him and they went out for a month or so....this will fall into place later sorry...back to the story.So, last night i asked her out and her response was 'Awww, im sorry but i just hate all guys right now, ive got too much stuff going on in my head (i assume because her latest ex was REALLY bad) and im just not ready for a relationship yet' i asked if itd be stupid to ask again in a few weeks and she replied 'why would be stupid? not at all'Later that night she came to my house, had dinner, we tickle fighted even more and then she gave me a back massage O_O it just seems odd that she'd carry on if not more than normal after turning me down.Im planning on just carrying on as i am, showing her i could be the first decent guy she could go out with and just kind of showing her i could be really good for her. Anyone got any ideas as to whether you think she likes me too or if im doing the right kind of thing? In my opinion, she just wants to see me more before deciding and was just being honest :SThanks
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Hi
Thing here is, if you have been a freind when she is in need, and keeping her spirits up, she is more likly to see you as just that a great freind, who she does not want to ruin that relationship with. Could you imagine for one moment, you have a great freind who is always there for you when times are ruff? but then they want to take it further? She may well really like you, but is afraid that if you go out, and it dont work she will never be the same with you again! and she is afraid of loosing that.Why dont you just be there for her, and if you really feel the need to tell her how you feel, then tell her, but dont pressure her to feel the same. And dont make her feel your sadness if she dont! who knows one day she may see the light , and realise that the greatest foundation of a relationship is being great freinds first!!!!
I hope this has helped
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