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writes: hi.. i m 24..virgin...not very low in confidence but smwhat it does hamper me..i have met this girl and i m planning to start a relation wd her....there are some doubts i want to clear...hope this helps..-when i MB i dont last really long..will this be the same after i start having real sex....and to confess i dont think i m too big..just above 5'..:(((((-does the height matter in female for their V hole...or its just the experience that matters......plzzz do reply.....reallyyy need some advice...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): thnxx for the help...just hoping everything goes well becoz this is a very critical situation in my life..concerned like hell....just wanna add that does lasting long come wd experience or is it something which is different with every person...or me being virgin for this long wont help my cause..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Try and take the pressure off, it is a good thing these days to be a virgin in my opinion, as saving yourself for the right person is a great reward. Finding someone that can appreciate you for who you are is a good thing. I would hang on to that for as long as possible. Ignore the media and nonsense that makes up lies about why virginity is bad. Imagine meeting the right person at the right time and how good it will be. To be honest just having sex for the sake of it with someone you like - that isn't the right person for life - is not really that interesting.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (10 May 2011):
Hi
You sound like your very sexualy intune with yourself, this is why when you masterbate you ejaculate very quickly. This does not mean it will be the same when you have sex with a women! as long as you take your time to explore eachother, there is no reason why you shouldn't have an enjoyable time together. If however you ejaculate quickly with her , then I am sureshe will understand, that nerves plays a big part in a new relationship of any kind. Try not to think about it too much and think about the closness rather than the sex, and it should work out fine :D
I hope this has helped
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