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writes: I have posted on here before about this girl who seems shy who I sent a valentines card to, well after three months of trying to approach and talk to her, she seemed to over come her shyness and she opened up and started talking back and over the last month, I've had several long chats with her when I've bumped into her out and about but never quite managed to ask her out. She is very close to her parents and usually with them and I don't think she goes out much and her parents are also very friendly towards me which is cool cos before February, I was nothing more than a stranger on the street to them. Anyway last time I spoke to her, I was asking for a number of a shop she goes too, and she said to pop round to her house and she'd give it to me. So I went round but she wasn't there, but I spoke to her parents again and they seemed really nice and introduced themselves personally in a way that made me think they were expecting me to go back there. Then they said they would get the girl to phone me. So what I want to know is, how long would you expect to wait before she makes some kind of contact. If she didn't make contact I'd find it totally hard to figure out because of how nice they all are, and its more than just being polite, we speak for ages and get on really well, but like I say she is really shy and I don't think she's had a b/f before or maybe much male interest at all. Has anyone got any opinions? Thanks
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reader, Cindy lou And Babbi +, writes (16 June 2006):
 i agree wiv DrPsych u should just ask her out and find out how she feels for u
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 I remember you posting about this a while back. She obviously likes you as she invited you to her house - just a shame that she wasn't in when you called around, try ringing in advance next time. Women like to be chased...even the shy one's...nothing OTT but you should just invite her out for a drink one night or go bowling or whatever you think she maybe into. I am all for taking it slow in the dating game but this seems to be moving along at snails pace. Time to take some decisive action once and for all...give the girl a call tonight as it is much easier to ask someone for a date over the phone rather than in person. If she says no at least you will be put out of your misery once and for all...but I would be surprised if she does refuse your offer!
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