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I think my uncle was getting sexy with me!

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Question - (2 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay this has been on my mind for the last few years and I thought I would see what you guys think.

My Aunty who lives over 8 hours drive away from us (so you can guess that we don't see her very often!!!) Got married when I was about 10 (I am now 16) and the guy she married had a great sense of humor, he was fun to be with and he loved hanging out me and my bros and sis. He was really a big part of our family.

I say was because they have now split up, but that's not what I’m writing about.

Whenever we saw each other for Christmas or other occasions, if the two of us where alone he always started hugging me very tight, and rubbing me with his arms and pushing his penis in to me etc. now I might have been like 11-12, but I had never even heard the word 'sex' let alone new what it meant. My mum and dad never let me watch movies and I was home schooled so I was way behind on all that stuff! But now looking back I can see that he was hugging me in a sexy way.

One time I was sitting on the couch and he was there to, but my younger brothers where there also and I remember him telling them to go out side, and then he pulled me on top of himself while he was sitting there and started putting his arms around me and pushing and pulling, he would also moan a lot. I always thought he was a bit crazy and never new what he was doing, and whenever I looked at him while he was doing it he just smiled at me.

Another time I was alone in a shed feeding our animals and he came in, i was facing away from him doing something at a table and he came up behind me and put his arms around me and was pushing his bum up against mine, getting really sexy with me.

At the time I had no idea what he was doing and kind of wanted to get away.

One time we where going to visit him, I remember I was looking forward to him doing it to me, that was the time that my mum told me he had split up with my aunty. I’ve never seen him again.

But I often think about him and what he did with (or too) me. I have even had a dream that he loved me more then he did my aunty and left her to marry me.

What do you think he was thinking or why you think that he was doing it?

Sorry if i go on and on, but I just had to tell some one.

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A female reader, gingergirl United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2009):

gingergirl agony auntBut hunni ... its still wrong. You were young and he took advantage of you - especially since you didn't even know what he was doing.

I dont think you should tell your mum - unless he comes back, but I just think that no matter how much you liked it, you should know that he did wrong. xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

No you got me totally wrong, i guess i didn't explain myself very well. we were NEVER Naked. it was all just hugging and stuff...

Sorry.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun i am thinking he's pretty messed up to do those things to you at a young age.

he basically if his penis entered you and you were both naked he raped you.

he had sex with you without your consent and you were under age.

you need to tell your mum about this this isn't right.

i think it's the fact he is probably a perve hense the fact he did that stuff to you.

you should tell your mum or someone close to you what happend because that's not right at all.

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