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writes: Dear CupidWhere Do I stand? I've been going to classes and want to know where I stand with my trainer - who I like. There have been occasions where he brushes past me and lightly touches my hand. I think he pays particular attention to me but not sure if that's part of his job - I'm confused. I believe he has a girlfirend. What should I do as the next set of classes are due to start soon should I go to his classes or another trainer's class? Any advice appreciated.ThanksAnonymous person. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2005): If you sense he's paying you particular attention then he probably is. But be careful if he has a girlfriend - IF you like him and want to pursue something with him, you'd want to make sure you werent simply the 'other woman'. Remember that some guys (not all, but some) will cheat, especially if sex is potentially involved. So just make sure he isnt using you.Of course, he could be perfectly lovely and innocent of all this, and he may not have a girlfriend after all. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but always, always, have your own physical and emotional well being as your number one priority.
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