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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I know this sounds daft but I think my teacher fancies me. 2 years ago we got too close and were told this by another teacher, however i got in trouble for being too close to the teacher and nothing happened to her. Nothing happened between us, however the last time we spoke properly she said to me, " I just don't want us to end up like the COUPLES you see in the papers." However at the time I didn't think about what she said. She is 26 and I am 15, not quite old enough to be my mam lol. When we did get split up and told never to go near each other I seen her everyday in the corridors and she would say hiya even though what we had been told. So I decided she was getting on my nerves so i tripped her up in the corridor to give her the message, because of this i got in trouble again. That was around 11 month ago and ever since then she still smiles to me. One day about 2 month ago I walked by her classroom n she was sat on a table as i was walking by she pulled her skirt up to show her leg, crossed them and winked at me. I now think I am falling for her n I don't know how to stop. If I pass her in the corridor when she is talking to her teacher pals she stares at me a lot they realise n look at me then roll their eyes. Do you think they know? I have begun to fantasize about her which i find disgusting when i think shes a teacher! but i really fancy her. What can I do, should I stay well clear? I have a girlfriend too and she is really hot but this teacher has an amazing personality too. How can I stop myself?Then yesterday I had to wait for a lift of my mom so i waited at reception. The teacher came up to me stood about a metre away and just stared at me her lip wobbling like she wanted to say something to me. I had a feeling she did anyway. But I walked off but I cant stop thinking about her! Today was my school summer fair too and I had to be on stall I went to get a burger and the teacher was serving she give me it for free and went there u go then smiled. Why?!? My girlfriend doesn't know but I our relationship is going downhill. :S HELP!
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hey babe, simple as this lol ignore her, spend most ur time wiv ur girl (if shes at school with u) n look away if she looks, dont say anythin to her.. just .. ignore .. her lol but she does seem to be tryin 2 get involved with u babe.. dont let her /.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x
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reader, Velcro  +, writes (1 July 2007):
Seriously, this woman has some emotional problems. She could get into serious legal trouble for what she is doing, and for good reason.
I know that you are no longer a child, though at 15, you are not quite an adult either. Please make an extremely adult decision here and get advice from a counselor, or someone you trust. While it is quite normal to fantasize about older women/teachers/etc.- it is not in your best interest to pursue this.
For your own sake, keep your life free from the craziness that could ensue if you pursued a relationship with your teacher. Think about your future- college, career, family, etc.- does this teacher factor in? If not, the risk is simply not worth it.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (30 June 2007):
 For you this is just a crush and believe me we have all been there at some point in our lives, but on the other hand for your teacher this is very wrong and she should be struck off for behaving like this around you.
You have a girlfriend which is good concentrate on her and avoid this teacher at all costs, because this will lead to very serious trouble.
I think you should tell your parents about this teacher and they should go to the school about her as this sort of behaviour is well beyond the boundries of being a teacher.
Take care.xx.
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