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writes:I think my husband cheated when he was on a business trip to Thailand six months ago...he lost his sex drive years ago when he came back from thailand he wanted sex all the time which is very unusual but it only lasted for two months and now he has gone off sex again. when i question him about it he denys anything went on but i dont believe him we have been together twenty years and i have always trusted him...i just want to know how to move on and get over this i cant forgive him when according to him theres nothing to forgive.but i feel i cant trust him again i feel really hurt ....any advice will be trully welcome ...thanks julie
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): An interest in sex with children would explain his lack of interest in sex with you after a trip to Thailand. Not saying that this is the case, but it is certainly possible as Thailand is a hotbed for professionals to go on child-sex tours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): I used to travel at a former job. Spent months away from home. Then of course when I came back I wanted to be with my wife.
And yes, I'm not blind and there were pretty women around abroad. That got me more "enthusiastic" about sex - so to speak.. but I didn't cheat.
I Hope it's nothing and you get over it.
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reader, superfly  +, writes (11 June 2007):
A TON OF STD'S IN THAILAND....HAVE HIM CHECKED OUT FOR YOUR HEALTHS SAKE...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 June 2007):
 In Thailand there are many beautiful women around and of course many beautiful men who dress up as women. It may be that seeing all these women has made him think about sex again hence the reason he'd be dying to get home to you to make love to you. Also, the very fact he was away from you for a period of time will have made him miss you and the closeness you had every night.
If I were you I would give your husband the benefit of the doubt here as you have no solid evidence and you've always trusted him in the past so why is this so different? Is he not allowed to miss you?
Eve
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