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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi im just curious here. When u masturbate and then try and put a finger in i can only get it so far then i feel it won't go any further and it hurts, y is this? I've never really done this before but i here of many virgins doing this and it isn't painful but really pleasurable and some even say they can hit their g-spot. Is this painful because its my hymen, (my finger doesn't really get in properly)if so does it have to be broken before you can do it?Will your hymen virtually wear away in time if you keep trying? Please help
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reader, Miss_Oz +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Your hymen does need to be broken, intercourse being the best way; I've read of women having surgery done to remove it but that would be an extreme eventuality. The breaking does hurt a little but after a few times of having sex, this pain goes away and you can learn to enjoy it. Masterbating with finger insertion isn't particularly interfered with by the hymen in my own experience but everybody is different. Your finger will only be able to go so far inside you; the length of a woman's vagina is typically only 4 inches, although again, that varies slightly from woman to woman. Most women can touch their g-spot as it is located only 1.5 to 3 inches inside their vagina from the opening; this area feels smoother than the surrounding flesh and it can swell slightly when a woman is aroused. If you are inserting your finger inside your vagina to the point where it is hurting, then stop and pull out a little way. This penetration can be very pleasurable to virgins and the sexually experienced alike, you don't need to use the full length of your finger. Are you properly relaxed and comfortable when you try to do this? Make sure you are arroused enough for your vagina to become ready for penetration, a.k.a you must stimulate yourself until you have produced your own natural vaginal lubricant, also known as 'getting wet', to make the entry easier. Stimulation of the clitoris is the best way to do this but be gentle with yourself. Simultaneously caressing your clitoris as well as inserting your finger will make it easier and also feel good. You can stroke wherever on your body makes you feel good to help and anywhere that is sensitive; many women enjoy touching their breasts and nipples, stomach, anus, their neck etc while masturbating. Remember to take your time as there is no rush, just try to enjoy yourself; I'm not sure how clued up you are on your body in that area, the proper names for each part and how they work but looking up on the internet and finding out would be a good idea if you're still a bit unsure. Have fun!
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