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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think my friends ex is starting to fancy me and I don't know if i feel the same. Me and his ex used to be close but i found out she,s been lying to me for ages about how they broke up. He wants to stay friends with her and he texts her and she never texts back. He then told me that she told him she had a new number while this isn't true. This guy is a nice guy we text 4 ages everyday and we have loads in common. I dont really talk to his ex anymore because she got a new boyfriend and well he clearly comes before her friends. anyway back to the main problem the guy i,m texting likes only a couple of houses up the road from me and he asked me to meet him one of the days and thats fine coz we were always friends I remeber his ex sayin that she knew he liked her because of all the things he got her and how he was romantic to her He told me he got me a few things the other day and when we meet up he,ll give me them. I shouldn't really be texting this guy coz of whats gonna come out of it. People will think that we fancy each other and The Ex will not be pleased and I have been tryin to work on the relationship with the ex because she used to be my best friend and now i dunno what we are we never txt or meet up anymore so I,m guessing a failed friendship. but about the Guy I duno what to do :(
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reader, smitheroon  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 I love to text - trust me - I send like four thousand a month, but in situations like this, you need to pick up a phone or meet in person and have a talk. You need to decide what's more important to you - repairing your old friendship or being friends with this guy. I could be wrong, but I'm also getting the impression that this guy still texts his ex (your old friend) and seems to want a relationship with her? Otherwise why would he text her if she doesn't text back?
I don't know, honestly, it sounds kind of messy. There are a lot of fish in the sea and plenty of girls who would make amazing friends and you might just be better off scratching these two off as "drama" and moving on.
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