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writes: hi im in love with my fiancee but im pretty sure he is cheatin on me with my brothers girlfriend,everytime he goes to work he leaves at different times and when my brother is here and his girlfriend is at home my fiancee is always late gettin home and blames it on the traffic do you think his cheating or do you think its just in my mind?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Hmmm, not really sure based on the information you provided. But if your feelings are this strong, maybe it would be good for you to do a little detective work. Follow him. Place yourself in a strategic location to see who he gets into the car with. If you know where your brother's g/f lives, you could scope out neightborhood from time to time and see if your fiancee's car is in the vicinity. You may have to be creative and it'll be alot of work and you may feel kind of crummy afterwards. So you have to decide if you can slink around until you get to the bottom of what's going on, or dismiss it for now until you have something more concrete. Good luck.
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reader, brokenheartz  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 You're probably right. Only solution..that show cheaters..let them know. If your stories good enough they'll find out for you. That's free. If you want to spend money get a private investigator. You could always stalk him but make sure he doesn't catch you, cause if you're wrong he'll hate you for not trusting him.
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