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writes:im 15, ive always been into boys, im not ugly infact i sometimes get called beautiful, but because of my personality and im too bubbaly and friendly as people say, that is why i havent got a boyfriend, i never have had one and i hate being single, they say im pretty and funny and everything i wanna be but because im too happy all the time and so down to earth - this is what they said, not me being big headed - im too much like a sister, ive waited all this time for someone to come along and pick me up but no one ever has, i always put my self down because of it too. without changing my self can some one help me out here please? thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Waited for this long? At your age, yes, time does drag on and a year last foreeeever. Bur realistically, you haven't waited long at all. It takes time, and a whole lot of filtering through people, to find someone you like who likes you back.
Why are you complaining about why guys haven't come to pick you up? Why aren't YOU picking up guys YOU like? Maybe because you haven't really found anyone you like enough to do something about it? If so, then why so surprised that boys take their time gathering up courage as well?
Bubbly personalities attract guys, don't worry. Your friends are just shooting in the blind trying to give you answers because you ask for reason for why you are single, as something must be wrong with you or anything.
It's NORMAL to not have a boyfriend at your age. These things can take time. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 18, and those first ones were just crap as well. Didn't have my first real relationship before I was 19. So no need to rush it, you aren't missing out on anything, this is just group pressure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2011): I have a friend who is very bubbly and very friendly, and is a but too much so. In her case she tends to be so friendly, that it seems rather pushy, because some people like to take time and she is so full-on. I don't know whether this is similar to you or not, but maybe just try to tone down and make sure that you are picking up on the signs that people are giving you that you may be coming on too strong for them. You will find someone for you, but boys, especially teeneage boys can be scared off pretty easily. Being a bubbly and friendly person is a great way to be, as long as you are not unknowingly pushy with it. Good Luck.
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