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*akel
writes:I have a problem. Recently I had sex with my lover and we were stupid enough not to use a condom but he managed to ejaculate away from me and not inside my vagina. Now ive missed my period and im showing some early signs of pregnancy. Im worried and I really dont want to be preganany because Im only youg and it will wreck mine and my families life. please give me some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Thanks for the update; I am happy for you that you are not pregnant.
Take good care.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, Rakel +, writes (21 August 2008):
Rakel is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys for helping but the result was negative which i was pleased about. thanks for hea advice. it really helped in alot of ways.and ive learnt my lesson
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): go to the doctros tell your parents i was 17 when i got pregnant you cant lie to them for ever you will have to tell them at some point if you are pregnant its better you might think they will be mad but they will help alot i have a 8 months old son now i live on my own ging back to school and im fine i do it on my own my parents helped me alot they were there for me so just tell your parents they can help you find some thing out whats best for you
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Well, don't worry about the signs.. Whenever you FEAR getting pregnant, all these signs would appear out of nowhere.. They are actually the sign of STRESS..
First calm down and as we keep no repeating, THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT YOU'RE PREGNANT OR NOT IN TIME IS TO GO FOR A PREGNANCY TEST..
Also keep in mind that Fatigue, urge to pee, breast soreness etc cannot be classified as CONFIRMED signs of pregnancy.. As all these could be the result of the mental trauma you are going through.. You may even miss a period because of this stress.. So PLEASE buy yourself a pregnancy test home kit.. It's available at any medical store at a very reasonable cost.. Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Yes, it was silly to have unprotected sex; you could get pregnant even if he did not ejaculate in your vagina; there is always the risk of pre-cum.
I suggest you go to your docotr or family planning clinic.
You will need a pregnancy test and might also have to be tested for STD'S and AIDS; as with unprotected sex, you run the risk of not just being pregnant but also being infected with a disease.
Go and get the tests done; the sooner you know the better; I do hope that all will be well and for your sake I hope you are not pregnant.
Keep us posted.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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