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*heKingofHeroes
writes:My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost two years now. It's been very serious, and I have chosen to love her with all of my heart. She claims the same. My girlfriend happens to be bipolar. Things have been going great until very recently. She has been acting strange, and she knows it. She has come to the conclusion that she is acting strange because of her bipolar disorder, she doesn't feel ready for a relationship. She says she needs time to focus on herself, and not have me to worry about. At the same time, she says she loves me very much, and wants me to be there, hopefully to get back together when she settles her issues "in a few months." We discussed taking a break, and we talked about if we would sleep with other people. I know I wouldn't feel right doing that when I know there is a girl I love out there, but she says she doesn't see it as an issue, and that what she does with someone won't affect her feelings for me. She says she is more casual about it. I've never been jealous, and I've been very lax with her and what she does, but this just crosses the line for me. What should I do?
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reader, bob dole +, writes (13 August 2008):
Unless your cool with it, I would have to say what the hell?! Sounds like maybe she is using this as an excuse. Just go with what you feel and be you, if it's not meant to be it's not.
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reader, TheKingofHeroes +, writes (13 August 2008):
TheKingofHeroes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I'll take that into consideration.
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