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writes: Hey I am so scared that my boyfriend has found out about me liking his best friend. I think that he knows but I am not sure.He hasnt come around in a while. He is kind of avoiding me, I guess that is how you could put it. I talk to his friends more than I do him. It worries me because I do like him a lot but I think I LOVE his friend! What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): I have a bigger problem. My boyfriend wanted me to have a threesome with him and his best friend so reluctently I did and now I love both of them and Im pretty sure they both love me. I dont know what to do myself but in your case I think you should go with the friend and try not to waste your boyfriends time if you dont "love" him!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 dear reader i think you need to follow your heart on this one hunni i know there is going to be at least one broken heart in all this but you have to think of your happiness but i will say this you need to make sure his friend feels the same don't do it on a may-be coz it will be your heart that breaks and i don't think there will be any going back talk to the friend first you need to be 100% clear on how he feels. even if he doesn't you need to think about the relationship your in now and is there any point in staying in it if you don't want to be with him
i hope you find the right choice and concider their friendship too it might just be best all round if you just walk away. weigh it all up the answer will become clear
all the best xxx
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reader, Smiler +, writes (12 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well where to start babe if you only like the guy you are currently with and he is avoiding you anyway, sit down sweetie and do some sould searching think about which of the two guys you actually want to be with... if it is his friend then why not take that opportunity to break things off with him as the relationship does not really sound that strong from what you have said, and try and take things further with his friend life is to short to be stuck in a relationship your not happy in, live life to the full have some fun.... having said that be sure that when you finish things with your current b/f that you are truthful with him and tell him everything ok
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, sibaan +, writes (12 June 2006):
 make up your mind and then decide which one you want, you cant have both and its not fair on anyone that you cant decide. you need to tell yor boyfriend yoursel or forget about his friend.
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reader, Annabelle +, writes (12 June 2006):
Break up with your current BF , if you dont feel love towards him it doesnt help to be in that relationship.He might be avoiding you for other reasons or perhaps not avoiding you at all.Do it face to face when breaking up,tell him that you just dont see your relationship going anywhere.Wait a while for the dust to settle before going for his best friend.
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