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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I think I may have feelings for my best friend of 7 years, and I sometimes hate myself for it. I feel I have to distance myself away from her, I don't know how she feels but I feel like she plays with my emotions and I hate it. I don't want to get hurt. I don't even know if this is a temporary thing, She basically took my virginity, and is the only girl I ever felt attracted to, but I also like guys too. so I guess that makes me bisexual.The thing is, I felt abandoned by her, a couple years ago she's telling me she loves me, next thing you know she dumps me off like a piece of trash, and finds herself a marriage man and they have been together for 3 years. She stopped hanging out with me, she ignored my calls, she just forgot about me without any explanation. It was the most painful experience I've ever gone through, it's hard for me to get close to anyone, yet I got close to her and she treated me badly. I went into a deep depression. During those years we've basically been off and on friends. She changed a little and I can see she's trying hard to make our friendship work. At the same time she really wants me to like this guy, he's all she ever talks about, and I think she's trying to have his baby. But I can't seem to like him, this is the guy she practically pushed me aside for, and it's not like it was for a single guy their relationship is not even legit, he won't leave his wife for her but they are in-love. I don't know what to do we still have sex occasionally, she told me last month she was in-love with me, now she's telling me she likes me as a friend. I love her a lot, but I don't trust her, and I don't want to get too close to her like I was before, like I said I don't want to get hurt. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I feel like I need to protect myself emotionally and move on. what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Move on... I am so sorry but you deserve better. She is a sucky friend and a bitch and on top of that sundae a user. M.O.V.E O.N for your own sanity and well being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): She's a loose wing nut. Do away with her and get you a girl who has her act together.
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reader, angelfrombelow +, writes (10 March 2011):
I know how you feel but you really need to move on. she is bad news, and she is only toying with your emotions.This woman is clearly playing with you, and at the first chance that she gets, she is going to throw you away like a piece of shit. sorry hon.
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