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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone!,Ummm well this is kinda hard to say because im not sure if im right. I think I'm a lesbian. I have a boyfriend and I love him and stuff but sometimes when I see girls I feel physically attracted to them and yesterday I think I met the girl of my dreams when I was in the park by myself. We started to talk and I fell in love with her. I know she isn't a lesbian though. I'm just so confused. I love my boyfriend he's my dream come true. Am I just going through some phase? I'm barely 17. We exchanged numbers and stuff yesterday I wanna text her or something but im afraid that I'l look crazy even though she is the one that wanted to exchange numbers in the 1st place. She texted me about 30 minutes after we left eachother just to make sure I got home okay. Is it safe to contact her yet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Thanx guys for ur advice.
I definetly love my boyfriend and I would never leave him he treats me really good im really lucky and blessed to have him in my life. I guess I was just curios. I been talking to her for the past hour now via text and she's awesome but she has definite potential to become my new best friend she's really postive ans that's the kind of people I need in my life right now. Thanx again.. : )
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 It can't hurt to become friends with this girl, can it? As long as it doesn't develop into something more, you'll be fine. If you start out as friends, you may realise you're not a lesbian or you may realise you're not in love with her, plus you get to find out more about this girl and see whether she's bisexual or lesbian too. You never know. Just don't cheat on your boyfriend. I doubt you're a lesbian though. You're probably bisexual, as you like both make and females. Be proud of it. ^_^ Just don't cheat, but friends can't hurt. Contact her
Wishing you the best.
xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 April 2008):
You can't contact this girl if you are in a relationship. That would be cheating.
Lots of people go through "curious" phases, but if you are with someone then you just have to put up with it and wait till you are single to act.
It might be something that sticks with you, it might just be something that happens once or twice. Don't assume you are going to be a lesbian straight away. Wait and find out.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, salvation +, writes (19 April 2008):
only you can say for use if your a lesbian or not and there is nothing wrong with it so yea i think its ok o contact her just dont be too forward or pushy and be sure before you say anything about loveing her that you really do.
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