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writes: I think I might be abusive. I got in a fight with my fiance because he said when we go on a trip back home for a week he doesn't want me to go out one of the days because he wants to go out with his friends (girls and guys) without me. I said he can't keep me from going anywhere, and then he said he didn't want to go on the trip the same time as me. I started packing up my stuff and went outside the RV, and then he locked me out. I got so mad that I broke one of his windows to his Rv. What is wrong with me?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Breaking the window was very wrong.
I'm not sure if I understand this problem well, but apparently your fiancé said he didn't want you to be with him on one particular day, and then, when he saw you would go anyways, he said he didn't want to go with you. It can either be that he just wanted to hang out with his friends, "old-style", or that there are things he wants to keep you from knowing. If this is the case, then he was somewhat rude, and I wouldn't say your being angry was wrong at all.
I need to say that his locking you out was very wrong, too.
Apparently you have some problems discussing issues.
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