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*rissichavous
writes:Okay, so it's been five months since me and my boyfriend (Chad) have been together, and it's been about seven months since me and Chad's brother (Nick) were talking, you know, almost dating until he supposedly ignored my texts, and that's when I got with Chad.So around three months when me and Chad were dating, I broke up with him. And started talking to Nick the same day because I couldn't help but cry at night still knowing I had feelings for him. I texted him and told him I broke up with his brother and he asked why, and I said for you. And he was like Really? And I said yeah really, and I was wondering if you'd like to go to the movies tonight. And by this time I was tickled, but then again scared to death. I could feel my heart beating in my throat each text we sent to eachother! He texted me back and said "Well I like you and all but I dont think that we need to do that." And I said okay I understand then, and I thought that the only reason why he said that is because I had just got done dating his brother, and he couldn't imagine what his brother would say and do to him if he found out we were going to the movies together the same week. So I got back together with Joseph and told him it was a misunderstanding, because at that point I thought it was. And I finally got over him, FINALLY! Not worrying about anything else besides my own relationship.. but I started High school on August 2nd and it just so happens my boyfriends brother (Nick) has a class with me. And it's an engineering class, so we have to sit at our own computer desks in a room while the teacher does his thing on his computer, also. And every single day probably since Tuesday, Nick has got up from his computer desk walking all the way over to mine asking certain questions that he could ask anyone else in the room, and this has been a while since we've talked. I mean we talk on and off, but since we have a class together we communicate more often. I don't know if he wants information from me because he really needs help with his work, he just wants to flirt, he still has feelings for me but he's keeping them to himself because he doesn't want his brother to findout at all, because he does kind of flirt like when he walks over he taps me on the shoulder and then looks down at my shirt and then up really fast like not at my boobs I dont think but you know how guys look up and down at you, and then ill say something and he'll be like shut up. Like in a playful way though. and then the teacher told us to go sit back down and I was sitting down at the very front of the desk and he sits in the back, and when he was walking in front of the class to go sit back there, he had his head turned toward where he was walking, but his eyes were on me.. and they were on me because I wasn't looking at him the whole time. I just glanced at him when he was walking a nd I noticed that he had his head facing the direction he was walking because he didn't want me seeing that he was looking at me I suppose. And I loved that feeling after I saw him doing that. Noticing he stares at me. Haha, and when the bell rang he walked behind me saying shut up, and I was like hmm? And he said sshut up. I don't really know why he does that lol but he just plays around like that. And I was like you shut uupp.Nobody think of me as some whore or anything. Because this has happened to quite a few people. And you can't help what you feel!!
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reader, xnickx +, writes (8 August 2010):
 hmm i read this question yesterday but was a little too confused to answer.. but seeing how you havent really recieved advice, rather just someone kinda attacking you imo isnt much help. so i'll see what i can do.
i wouldnt worry about being labled a slut. And you're right, you cant help what you feel and youre atleast being honest with yourself.
i'd say that those are usually some pretty good signs that he's into you, unless he's overly flirty with all girls, but like you say its just you. However, think of the complications it may cause in between the two brothers. there is definately going to be some resentment between the two.
But they are family, so they will eventually forgive each other and move on, however chad probably wont be as willing to forgive you, so you had better be sure you really dont want anything to do with him anymore because hes going to feel like you just used him to get with your brother which is going to hurt him bad.
Again, he'll get over it. And you said its 5 months, so i'd say thats enough time to ease the pain for chad and the complications with nick.
So i'd go for it, and best of luck
Nick.
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reader, krissichavous +, writes (8 August 2010):
krissichavous is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am a lady and I act like one all the time. My ex boyfriends brother is the one that you need to be lecturing to. And im pretty sure im not a slut at all. haha :) thanks for sharing that with me.
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reader, krissichavous +, writes (7 August 2010):
krissichavous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen you come to the third paragraph. The word 'Joseph' was meant to be Chad!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): You really have to be careful how you act. "BOYZ WILL BE BOYZ, BUT LADIEZ MUST BE LADIEZ". Or else you'll be simply a slut. You still young, and your actions will surely get you labled. You are also confusing yourself with these boyz. Girl!!! whatehell, do you want to be used by boyz? It may not look like it, but men stil wants to be the hunter. So stop doing their job and start with being a lady.
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