A
female
age
30-35,
*asanovaxeja
writes:Hey guys, I've got a (few) question(s)...well, i think I'm lesbian, I'm okay with that, (i think because I'm attracted to girls like all the time, and on occasion a guy, but id never be with him), but i don't know how to meet girls. I'm shy sometimes, and that's my main issue. how do i approach a girl? What are some ways to know she could be interested? or shes bi/gay? What do i say?please and thanks for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Hey honey. Don't worry about how to meet girls. I am not a lesbian but i have friends that are. They join lots of groups and get loads of support within the groups. A couple of my friends have actually met their partners by going to the groups. They seem great,i would highly reccomend you try and find a group near you. Good luck,take good care x
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Thats a tough one and I know its hard to find others in a high school setting. Does everyone know that are a lesbian? From the stories that I have heard its usually a friend who realizes it with the person and they try a relationship. You can always ask them what they think of being with another girl and see how they react. Other than that its hard if you are not public about it but if you go on to university or college there will be gay and lesbian groups where you can meet people who you know are comfortable with their sexuality and will probably help you out. Actually it might not be a bad idea to see if you can get in touch with one of those groups now if possible.
Best of luck to you.
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