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writes:i am a 22yrs old virgin who doesnt really believe in love because i have not seen the 'perfect guy'. but recently i started having this funny feeling for my close friend and i think have unconciously fallen in love with him but he doesnt know. how do i go about it cos i dont want to jeopardize our friendship and i think he'll be disappointd in me because i dont know if he loves me just as a friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 The only thing you can do is confess your feelings. Tell him you've been thinking about him romantically and you were wondering if he ever considered dating you. Most guys have considered dating their female friends at some point, it's part of our nature.
Some rewards are worth the risk. You have to decide if the reward is worth it to you.
Even if it doesn't work out the way you want to, most good friends make it through a confession like this. I have confessed feelings to a friend, and got turned down, but we are still friends. I've had friends confess feelings for me, and I've turned them down, but we remained friends... Good friends won't hold it against you that you've developed stronger feelings for them.
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