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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi. Ive just rented my house to my tenant. We had an agreement that his going to stay for a year and he must put the rental money to my bank account. He put it once and after its been 7 months and he just comes where i stay at my parents house to drop and when i ask why he doesnt put it into my account, he says he cant and its always full at the bank. When its weekend end of the month, he calls me to make sure that im there when he drops it. Ive just develop some feelings for him and dont know if im correct of what im thinking of. Last year october 2013 ive lost my boyfriend through suicide. Ive been grieving thats why ive rented the house out. My problem with him is that somehow his arrogant. When i try to make conversation about the house, he will only answer what i ask and in a rude way. Im so confuse when it comes to him cause im always polite and i think im in love and im scared to confront him cause he might mybe say something i will regret.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 August 2014):
 You are not in love, you just have a crush on him. You are single and lonely and any decent looking guy will get your attention. You and him are dealing with business and when you fancy a person you would wish that he's nicer. There is nothing really to confront. He has no obligation to tell you why he is the way he is. Maybe you could say something like, "smile, your face won't crack." Or something more direct, "you don't have to be so rude." If he's going through a crisis in life, you can't magically turn him into a more pleasant person. He does not have to like you back so as long as he's paying back rent there's nothing much you can do.
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