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writes: Is this a little weird and suspicious?My b/f and i both have the same cell phone service provider. Regarding call waiting--you know when you call someone and there is a distinctive ring telling you the person is on the phone. Well for a few months i havent heard that ring when i call my b/f which i thought at first was odd b/c i usually call him once in awhile when he is on the phone. After a couple of months--i then thought it was weird. I even checked his phone one time and actually saw that when i called him one time and he didnt pick up--he was on the phone--so he didnt switch over like he usually would if i heard that distinctive ring. And i said oh were you busy? and he just said he was in the car and left out that he was on the phone--which made me think ok he doesnt want me to know this.The weird thing is--i dont know how you would even switch something like that off where he can hear if i am calling him but i cant hear that he is on the phone anymore. Recently i called him and it went straight to voicemail and i called again and it rang once and then nothing--i obviously thought he was on the phone. After calling again--it finally rang and when he picked up i just said hey are you on the phone and he said yeah and he would call me back. When we spoke i did mention oh i dont think you have call waiting anymore or you took it out--i said if you are on the phone i don't hear that beep--i think it rings differently or goes to voice mail. He just says i dont know(but obviously the time he lied about missng my call b/c he was in his car and left out he was on the phone knowing i cant hear the beep--i think anyway). I said you dont know why? he said no, he then said--what does it matter anyway if you cant hear the beep?Am i overanalyzing? This is making me worried now that he can be on the phone at any time of night with a girl and if i call i wont even know he was on the phone with her. Should i be worried? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 If he has never cheated on you before then I think you are worried about nothing. Trust is very important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): Hay hun, to be honest i think your are overanalyzing. First of all what is your relationship like with your b/f do you have reason to think that he would be on the phone to another girl?Do you have any reason to think this is more than him simply not having call waiting on his phone? He may have turned it off without realising that he had done it (im always messing with my mob). Next time you call him and he doesn't answer just leave him a message im sure as soon as he realises your trying to get hold of him he will call you back - if he persistantly doesn't call you back then maybe you should have words with him.
You could always call him and if you suspect that he may have been on the otherline just make a little joke out of it by saying 'oh looks like someones important' and see his reaction - if he seems fine then you know it was just a harmless call.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (23 May 2007):
 You are overanalyzing. I'm suprised that he would rather talk to someone else on the phone rather than his girlfriend. I would be a little bothered by that, and if it continues, say something immediately.
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