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writes:What do you do when your pretty sure the love of your life is going to leave you? Im worried that im going to resort to drinking to not feal pain. hes been the love of my life for so long the only one i ever been able to count on the only one who i can talk to all the time and never get enough. Iv depanded on him for so long i dont see how i can make it on my own. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 HIAnd this is why he will go, you need to stop being dependant on him, start doing your owns things, going places without him, give him some breathing space, then he may just turn things around and stay. Turning to Drink wont take away any pain, it willl just make you more depressed, and you will only go down hill from there. You need to ask yourself why do you NEED to depend on him? why do you fear lonelyness? because sometimes, we need alone time, to work out who we are, and without that space, you can suffocate the one thing you love. Sit him down and say, I realise I have been ver clingy lately, maybe I should get out a bit more, start doing some things away from you, maybe go gym or swimming, it's not good that we are in eachothers pockets 24/7, and laugh and say im enough to do my head in, so im sure your feeling a little suffocated. he will see you have been thinking about him, and trying to make things better before he has the chance towant to finish with you. And he will want to give it a chance to see if you really cn be less dependant on him. But what ever you do NEVER turn to drink its not a soloution, its a pit of hell to fall into .xx
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