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*chellex
writes:Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he broke my heart, but he wouldnt give me any. He kept ignoring me, only answering 'small talk' type questions by texts. Iv been slowly getting over it but then the other night he requested to be my friend over facebook, i accepted and he spoke and apologised to me. I dont understand what this means, why now has he changed? hes never been the type to apologise, he is an extremely stubborn person. Does this mean he still has feelings or is he just feeling guilty? Any help would be appreciated, thanks.
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reader, xchellex +, writes (29 May 2011):
xchellex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice, really appreciate it. Hes now actually deleted me, I don't quite understand why, I don't know if hes doing it for attention or because hes annoyed other lads have been writing to me. A bit confused again..
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reader, LoveCanada  +, writes (28 May 2011):
Hi,
Do yourself a favor and don't take him back. He is stubborn and has tendency to be cold. He has broken ur heart. He may have feelings for you, but they don't run deep enough. You want somebody who is head over heels into you. A guy who is breaking a girls heart within couple of years of relationship probably is not a long term bet.
Run baby run. U are young. Life is precious . U are precious. Don't squander ur feelings on someone who cannot respond deeply back to u. Find someone who will.
It is not a good idea to stay in constant touch. occational contact to catchup is ok.
That is my 2 cents worth :)
Take care
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reader, tomachka  +, writes (28 May 2011):
girl i think he still likes you because if he wouldnt than why would he apolizays to u
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): I think the reason he hasn't spoken to you in 3 months is because he is stubborn and its killing him but he couldn't wait any longer so the first step on getting you bk is adding you to facebook :) he still has feelings for you because if it ended bad you wouldn't wanna talk again unless you guys wanted to work it out
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): It just means he doesn't want it on his conscience any longer is all.
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