A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid.There is this guy that I really seem to like. When im not with him, I want to talk to him, and I constantally think about him. The proble is, I know that he doesn't feel the same way. I really think that his whole intentions for coming around me was for sex only. But I was wondering if there is anything that I can do, to really make this guy want me? Or is it not even worth trying? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (13 June 2007):
I would say that you should go out there and find someone whom you know will respect you because if his intentions involve sex, how do you know that if he says "I want a relationship" he won't just use you for sex?
Find someone who you can trust and depend on.
A
female
reader, flower girl +, writes (13 June 2007):
Definately don't sleep with him yet if you really want him to like you and not just for the sex, as much as guys say they want it most of them if they really like someone would much prefer if you make them wait, play it call if he does not do some chasing then you know what he is really after.
Take care.xx.
...............................
A
female
reader, LauraE +, writes (13 June 2007):
The hard truth is that you can’t make someone like you more. He knows you as you are, and for whatever reason, he hasn’t fallen in love. Unfortunately that’s life some of the time. It doesn’t mean you are at fault; he just isn’t destined to be the love of your life. You don’t want to hear this I know, but the best thing is to give up on him. The longer you stay, the longer it will be before you get over him and find someone else who will really love you. Life is much too short to waste on lost causes.
...............................
|