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writes:hi i have a parner i been with for 3 years but there is a lady living in the same block of flats as him she use to always be in his flat untill i got very angry about this i think he fancys her but he keeps denying this every time i ask him he gets angry and he defends her against me he always use to take pitures of her when ever she was in his flat he dose not see her now because i want allow him to but i still belive he fancys her you can tell by the way someone looks at some one else he also went red in the face when she was around
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): If she has lived in the same complex as him for the 3 years that you have known him. Then i am sure if they did fancy each other, they would have acted on it long before now. They probably did have a liking for each other. And i can understand you feeling uncomfortable if they were spending a lot of time together in his home. But it isn't your place to dictate to him, who he is allowed to see. You can say you are concerned about a situation but you can't tell him what to do. Had HE chosen not to see her anymore, because he knew it bothered you. That would have meant so much more.
As it is, you are probably making him more interested in her not less, by attempting to make her off limits to him. It won't really make him stop seeing her if he really wants to. It will just mean you know less because he wont mention her anymore.
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reader, susey6 +, writes (16 July 2011):
susey6 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwho think the same who think he fancys this nebour
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011): So what is your question?
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reader, Ronnie70 +, writes (16 July 2011):
 You won't allow him? If there's one thing that will make me want to do something more than ever, it would be someone telling me I'm not allowed to.
You're trying to control him in an unacceptable manner.
Don't kid yourself that he's having nothing to do with her because you 'won't allow' it.
I foresee her telling him he's 'not allowed' to see you if he wants to remain on friendly terms with her.
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