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I think he cheated on me while I was pregnant, and I feel betrayed.

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Question - (15 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. It all started when I got pregnant with our daughter who is now 2 years old. He started a new job and he would ignore me all day long and always be going out, coming home with friends and telling them how hot his new boss was. (and I would hear about her all the time)

Then he got assigned the pager shift, so sometimes he would work 12 hours a day sometimes 20, come back home and he wouldn't even hold me or tell me he loves me just go straight to bed and not say a word to me. Then his boss started calling him atleast 2-3 times a day, he then started coming home and going to the bathroom to wash himself only in the private area, and I found that odd. There was one day he was supposed to be at work and he wasn't, and neither was she.

I gave birth to our daughter and he suddenly got closer to me, yet I feel so hurt, so betrayed that now I have a hard time even giving him a wink or tell him I love him. What is your opinion and do you believe just as much as me that he cheated on me? even though he swears he didn't, even till this day. what should I do just someone help me!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008):

It sounds suss to be sure.

So do some investigating. If he did, or is, having an affair then you have a right to know.

But he also has the right to forgiveness and the right to seek redemption.

Flynn 24

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