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I think deep down he loves me -- any ideas about what's going through his mind?

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Question - (1 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2009)
A female Iran - Islamic Republic of age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Why I can't forget him while he seems to me just a liar?

He knew that i am elder than him for about 14 yrs but he continuously showed his love and jealousy for me .I am an educated , unmarried and pretty woman.I have my reputation and position as a young succeeded woman.he was 24 and we loved each other without any commitment but felt each others love .He is now 27 .after 2 yrs. he changed his work place and i felt that he no longer wants me.he went away but i couldn't accept that idea and i send him sms one day after 3 months without saying any thing about my feeling just i asked about his health and etc.after 4 months he visited our office and he ignored me which make me feel very angry so i decided to forget every thing about him but after 4 months we were having party in our office and he was invited.i tried to avoid him but he called me and talked to me.at that time one of his frieds came and i left him.he was looking at me and he was surpriesed about my reaction but i ignored him completely and befor he go he tried to say good bye twice but i didn't look at him.actually i was revenging for my self because i feel that he deceived me for 2 yrs.

From that day he never visited us and i didn't hear any thing about him.He left our office last November and it is about 6 months since last time i saw him .I know that he forgot me but i can't go over that and somthing in deep in my inside tell me that he loves me and the issue is our age differences.

Any advice ,please who can imagin and tell me what is goig on inside his mind?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009):

thanks for all of you.age differences in our area is a great deal especially for women and when it is greater than 10 yrs.that is why he tried to forgeat me and escaped.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009):

Agreed on the need to move on, simple as that. Though I fully understand how hard that can be, it is the only thing that will give you back your life and joy...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2009):

I'm afraid he's not interested in you. When it comes to love, matters of age don't matter like this. He isn't the guy for you, so you'd be better off moving on.

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