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writes:im 19 ive been in a relationship since Jan 25 of 08 a little over 1 1/2 and already have a 8months old baby by him and i live with his parents. i gave up everything/everybody to make him happy and to be with him.he is constintly jelious of everything i do to the point where i cant even talk to anybody or go anywhere and because of that i never finished school. i rearly leave the house.im home 24/7 im just at a point where i dont know what to do.im tired of doing nothing with my life. is there anything i can do and advice you can help me with?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 October 2009):
 Move back home. His jealousy will not get any better and you will spend the rest of this relationship feeling trapped. This is the kind of problem that doesn't get better even though you communicate...he'll have to go through a lot of therapy and it's not worth waiting around for. So, reconnect with your friends and family and ask them to help you get out of this mess.
Good luck.
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reader, beauty344 +, writes (2 October 2009):
 hi i know everything your going though the only good thing is that i dont have any kids by the asshole ... All i can say is stay strong for your child and tell him how you feel and if that doesnt work pack your shit a leave i know its hard but hes just a control freak and that not heathy .... for you and your child i wish you the best and get back to me and let me know how everthing turns out
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 October 2009):
Young lady, this guy has got you completely pinned. This is actually abuse. Yo've given it all up for him, and he's not happy? He won't let you out or have friends? this is a very dangerous place to be in. You need to sit him down and tell him that you are allowed a life outside that house. If he has none of it, then you really would be better splitting from him and living your own life. I know you have a child by him, which means you can't just cease contact. But this relationship will ultimately leave the child compeltely confused as to what a relationship is meant to be, and you'll be unhappy. Either he changes his attitude and lets you have a life, or you must leave for your own health and that of your child's.
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