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writes:i have been dating my new girlfriend for a few months now and i recently started thinking about my ex a lot and she called me the other night to talk. it was a light conversation between old friends more than anything else and she mentioned how she broke up with her boyfriend.truth is, i miss her a lot even when im with my new girlfriend. I think about how much of a better time i would be having with my ex than with my new girlfriend. I compare the two girls and can say that my ex was definitely the better girlfriend and person. our connection was just so much better. i dont know what to do.
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reader, aliyahnangelo +, writes (5 January 2012):
 If u still feel like this about ur ex than ur just stringing ur girlfriend along. You have to break it off with her no matter what. Its not fair to ur girlfriend because she doesn't have ur undivided attention and it isn't fair to u because u obviously want something or someone else. Tell ur ex how u feel and see if she feels the same. but first and foremost break it off with ur current girlfriend. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): Go with your heart...Always with your heart.If you feel that way about your ex girlfriend- Tell her!. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Never have any regrets in life.. Never resist that pang! It sounds like you aren't really into this new girlfriend anyway..If you can think about anyone else..this shows (ex aside) this shows you that you're not meant to be.You might like her, she might be a great person but you should always follow your heart. Life is not a dress rehersal and you only one shot!.. If you are friends with her then you should be able to talk to her.I wish you love and happiness wherever you find it!
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Well, if you feel like you would be having a better time with your ex, and that she's a better gf & person, why are you still with your gf? I know you can't help what you feel, but if you're feeling that strongly about it, continuing to date her is the wrong thing to do.
Whether you get back with your ex or not, you owe it to your current girlfriend to be honest, and give her a chance to find someone who will appreciate her better.
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