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*ilmizzbaybehh
writes: Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detailRight firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for females. I see myself being with another female, i can't take my mind off her.I think about having sex with this girl and touching her and all sorts, i think she likes me but i'm not too sure. How can i know for sure? How can i experiment with her in confidence and be sure that she wont talk about me to other people.If you could help i would be very greatful.
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reader, lilmizzbaybehh +, writes (4 August 2009):
lilmizzbaybehh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey am just lettin you know i wasnt really in love with the girl i was talking to i know this now all the love goes to my girlfriend she found out i was talking to sum other girl and she hates me for it but has forgiven me i never did anything with this other girl im just guna call my g/f tay ok i still have a little bit of feelings for the other girl but ill hav to hope they go away i dont want her to get inbetween me and tay agen i still think about the other girl a hell of a lot like if i bumped into her what i wud do she told me she loved me more than 1 occation but shes really sarcastic with things so i never knew if she was serious or not anyway i realise now if she did love me tht much she wudda contacted me and told me honestly how she felt thanx for ur help xxx
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reader, Isabella1974 +, writes (9 May 2008):
Hi there, i will do my best to answer this for you.
Ok you are with this girl for 3 years, it seems to me that this relationship has run its course and you are looking for a way out, i know you probably care for your current girlfriend but, before you even consider going with someone else, dont you think it would be better to break it off with your current partner.
How well do you know this other girl you are attracted to? Get to know this other girl a bit better to see can you trust her and to see what type of character she has.
You are not to sure if she likes you? are you certain sure that she like girls? has she given off signals that she would like to get involved with you? In order for you to experiment with her in confidence it would be better for you to really try to get to know her a bit more, you can judge over time whether she is someone who would kiss and tell.
I trust you are being careful sexually regarding using protection etc.
i hope this helped you in some way.
take care
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