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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): If you (the person that posted the original post) are reading this please let me know what happened by responding to this. The reason I ask is because I am now in the very same position and very hurt that I didn't even get a thank you for my effort to wish him a happy birthday.
Please let me know what the outcome was. Did you ever hear back from him, are you still apart or back together. Your answers would mean a lot to me. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): Think you`ll be better accepting he see`s you as past and doesnt seem to want to be friends. He may have met someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): It is totally understandable as to why you feel hurt that he did not reply to your text. you still have feelings for him that is why it hurts. Now if you did not have those feelings, then it would not bother you that he did not reply. I sent my ex a Happy belated birthday text and I don't care if he don't reply because my feelings for him are no longer there for me to want to start upsetting myself over. Trust and believe that he is probably still looking at that text and smiling to himself. Don't stress yourself out over it and move on with your life and he will be back but as long as you are stressing and getting angry over somthing like this he will continue to torture you by not contacting you.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 He is after all... your EX. He has his own path to follow now. And so do you.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 its not about moving on or you
On my birthday i was so drunk and recieved about 30 other texts that i stop responding (or being able to) after 5 texts
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 August 2008):
Perhaps he is so incredibly pissed that your message and the 15 other happy birthday messages have been received and understood, but not replied to yet as that takes time and effort.
Stop stressing, he's your ex, you shouldn't be letting him churn you up this way.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Maybe he had his phone turned off, or he left it in the car?
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reader, greenday +, writes (31 July 2008):
 mayb he left his phone or just 2 busy having a party and didn't hear the phone since it's loud just wait u'll never k
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (31 July 2008):
 He's your ex. Don't worry about it. He has probably moved on and so should you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Perhaps he was occupied or had someone with him. I think it depends on how you split up-was it mutual or did he finish with you and why? Its hard but if he doesnt contact you leave him be he isnt worth your energy
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