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writes:Im in a relationship for about 4 months.We have never fought, just miscommunications.My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for valentines day go to a dinner and a concert which started at 8pm and she confirmed that she was coming.But then she was acting very weird. Her text messages were making no sense, which confused me I had the feeling that she wasn't coming. She told me she had problems with her car, then I offered help.She refused.She said thank you, baby I wont need it.Then I sent a last text, because she was late. No answerThen I went crazy on alcool.I texted the stupid text, so 4:18am in the morning my girl texted me, saying that she was just came back from the hospital, because she had a kindey stones attack.She had that before, with me.I didn't know was again. No answer from her. She saw my text and she said it made her very upset I had been drunk a couples and my girl insist that I talk about my ex, well I dont remember probably I was very drunk so again this stupit texted she said I was comparing her to my ex so the other day no text until eveningShe texted me and I told her I will call her.my girl said I'm not ready for a relationship because I have to fix issues with my ex she said I know you are over with her but you still have some issues I told I was very drunk she said to me that I need to get sometime and when Im coming back from NJ she said to me to her call when I get back 5 days. Me and my girl we never had a big fight even this one we just have a miscommunication she always is so proud to show me she is wearing my T shirt to go to sleep we really get well together but I think alcohol is my problem I will slowing down What do you think Guys anybody sorry my writing is not that perfect
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): i just want to know whether you have already got over your ex...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Hey Thank you for answered me let me explain a little more I wrote a poem for her sorry for my bad writing I really have to take english class compositionNo she really had Kidney stones I was with her when this happened for the first time its a very very painfulll pain that you cannot even think in anything you cannot find a good position its just hurts you get go to the hospital right away about her car yes it was showing some problems already she loves her car she doesnt leaves her Its true she told me the day before valentines that she got problems with her car that she will take to the mechanic to get fixed so she can still drive or if the car doesnt get fix she will ask her mother to drive her well whats happening I offer her help ride she leaves far way from me i cannot drive but i asked my brother to help me out but i dont know i think she got uncomfortable then she was waiting for her to drive her that what the whole things happened she had a flare up of pain then her mother had to take to the hospital immedially she told me she left her purse at home too much pain that why she could not text me then i went crazy and then the Stupid text message bla bla and now she upset she told me to call her on sunday I sent to her this Poem I modify the poem with my own words and my friend helped me out.I'm SorryHi. Nicole How are you feeling? Ihad to do this Im falling apart I had thinking about a lot Im not a good writer or when I speak English So I worked hard in this text so you understand meI’m saying sorry for being blinded,Blinded by the thought, saying blind words.I'm sorry for everything I have put you through,I was very hard on you.I'm sorry for all that's been said and doneI am the earth, you are my sunI'm sorry for not making everything rightBut the situation I was in made me very tightI'm sorry for not lending you a handIf only I could be a better boyfriendI'm sorry if it seemed like I didn't careIm happy someone was there.I'm sorry for hurting your heartwhich deeply I hurt my heartFor forgiveness, where do I startThank you once again
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reader, Caramba400 +, writes (18 February 2011):
This is my sorry letter a poemHi. X, How are you feeling? I had to do this I'm falling apart, thinking about a lot. I'm not a good writer or when I speak English. So I worked hard on this text so you'll understand meI’m saying sorry for being blinded,Blinded by the thought, saying blind words.I'm sorry for everything I have put you through.I was very hard on you.I'm sorry for all that's been said and doneI am the earth, you are my sunI'm sorry for not making everything rightBut the situation I was in made me very tightI'm sorry for not lending you a handIf only I could be a better boyfriendI'm sorry, if it seemed like I didn't careI'm happy someone was there.I'm sorry for hurting your heart,which deeply I hurt my heartFor forgiveness, where do I start?Yes I will take a writing course in English composition thank you very much guys
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reader, Caramba400 +, writes (18 February 2011):
Thank you guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): ok- this is my advice:
1- Stop drinking, you are on the way to a real problem as it has a bad effect on you.
2- Apologize to her for the text and explain why you were so upset- I'm not sure why she did not let you know earlier what happened as you must have been worried. But still you should never assume things and obviously she had a true emergency.
3- Do something to help her recover and celebrate V day on another day instead.
4-Take a writing course in English composition.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 there seem to be a couple of issues here:
was her car really broken down/ did she really have kidney problems? i think it's weird that she said it was broken but then was all no it's fine--so was it broken or not?! i understand you feeling like she was coming up with a lame excuse.
Just tell her that you're sorry you sent such an intentionally hurtful message, that was immature and only meant to hurt her feelings cause YOUR feelings were hurt when you thought she blew you off (I guess your text was something about your previous girlfriend being better for you?) also, tell her you'll make it up to her and have a belated valentines, maybe make some chicken soup for her for her being sick.
definitely in the future, control your alcohol consumption, especially what you say while you're under the influence. next time she hurts your feelings and you've had something to drink, try to put it off til the morning where you might think more clearly about how to deal with the situation.
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