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writes:Honest truth about me. My ex and i were together and of course we loved each other a lot. We were fighting the last week of a relationship (we were living together) and we broke up. He begged me not to leave him and than i told him ok we will talk in two days so we calm down abit. Two days later he told me "i need time". I was so scared he had met someone else i begged him this time. Almost a week went by and he told me he'd found someone else. I was scared and he told me he doesn't know who to chose. I was so angry that he would consider another girld over me!i made up lies, saying im seeing someone else as well, because i wanted him to get scared and want me.Only then he did he tell me a week later that "Stop texting me, i hate you, im in love with my new girlfriend she's gorgeous, and better body and kisses better and you will always be my ex".Since that day i havn't texted him.They have been together for 2 months and 1 week know. I know its wrong to keep wanting him back and i honestly still have hope. I dont want him to be my bf, i just want him to talk to me. I used to think it was a rebound but it's been too long to be a rebound. Do you think he will ever realise he misses me? Ive tried everything to get over him , No contact , talking to other guys, Youth group , praying seeing friends, keeping busy it helps a bit but doesn't satify me enough to be happy. Can i have help , stories and opinions please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): You only want him back because you're outraged that he found someone else. It's not because you actually want to be with him as a person (you did break up with him in the first place). You just don't like the feeling of having been replaced so easily like you're disposable because that tears at your self esteem, so you want reassurance that you're not disposable so you can get back your self esteem. That's why you want him back, so you can be assured you're not disposable.This is the wrong way to look at things. You're much better off without him. Move on and find someone better. Do it for yourself, he's no longer part of your life.
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reader, guccimane99  +, writes (18 February 2011):
Honestly, give him space and time he may come to realize you were better he may not. The only thing you can do is be happy when he sees u sad he realize's he made the right decision when he sees u happy he will be stunned because ur doing so well. U may even get a "i miss u" text or a "i hope ur doing well" text and if u get that ignore it because there just trying too see if ur there. I always tell my friend this quote U don't realize what u got till its gone.
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