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writes: Damn!! I feel like a complete idiot. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks everything seemed great etc. And then last week he calls it off saying it's not me it's him and he needs to do things, like work gym. So I was like what the heck? But I did get some blunt advice from a guy friend who told me it's normal for a guy to want space and just ignore him. So I have been trying too, wasn't until friday where I had to text him to get my things back and he was saying how we should hook up again. So I said okay.but I did the stupid thing last night and got really drunk and started texting him and making myself look stupid. how do I get over this stupid thing? My friend went mad at me cos of what I was sending :/ I feel so silly and embarassed. :(
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (28 October 2012):
Gosh this will get better I promise you. My friend at work who is 20 did the same thing last weekend but she was even worse she texted him drunk then turned up at his house. He wouldn't let her in and called her a taxi. She spent nearly all last week crying about what a fool she had made of herself but by Thursday she was getting over it. I told her that we have all been there and not to worry about it. I said if she saw him just to laugh it off. It is like fish and chips paper - yesterday's news. As soon as you have seen him and your friends mention it immediately, get them all to take the piss out of you then it is over and done with. Really I promise you in the grand scheme of things this is nothing. Who hasn't sent a drunlen text? I have sent hundreds over the years. You are just going to have to laugh it off and then it will be soon forgotten.
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