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writes:I've dated my boyfriend for 4 years. All that time he was caring and sensitive. Recently for the past few months I just don't understand what is happening with him. He is forever busy on weekends. If I want something I must do it now. Today he asked me to bring him food from my home when I'm coming to visit him. I lied and told him its against my culture knowing that there is nothing left as we are too many to have left overs. I was embarrassed to tell him that. All he told me over the fone was that I'm boring then he dropped the fone on my ears. Was this just something he said in order for me not come and visit him today. I'm so depressed about what is happening or has he fallen out of love. Recently he just don't care about us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): your very welcome..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much highmaintanance101 you have said it all. It's very true and according to what I've gathered its only 7 of what he is according to this quiz, I'm in big trouble. I hope whatever is happening is revealed, so that I can be strong to let go. Thanks a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): Hi there. I wrote this article way back.. this will help you to identify if your bf still love your or not...Manhater101 ’s adviceThis how to guide is for all the women out there who cant seem to figure out if their bf really loves them, despite of asking directly from their bf, friend's or maybe looking for answer on google search for signs if their bf really loves them.My how to guide is based on my relationship experienced. I had 2 serious relationship and 4 flings. My 2 serious relationship lasted years and almost have made me marry one of them. The flings I had lasted months and each men had diff'rent styles on showing they care for you.But here's how you can really tell:"How to tell if your bf really loves you?" (Exclusive for women)1. He loves you if his actions supports his words meaning he does what he says he will.If he cant, he will let you know and will never leave you wonder what went wrong..2. If he calls you and text you at least once or twice a day. That's a pretty good sign. Or if his an online bf at least u contact each other everyday (emails or im, skype)to make things work then he loves you.3. He loves you, if he always initiates to get in touch with you. Try not to contact him first in a day, if he cant lasts, most probably his in love with you, coz if his not, he wont care.(Ooops dont get me wrong... This are guides for women.. Men should not follow this how to tell/signs, for men and women are diff'rent)4. If he started to stop searching for other women as his means of entertainment then he definitely thinks you complete his world and he surely loves you.5. If He tells you out of nowhere he loves you, then he really loves you.6. If his not afraid to tell the whole world your his girlfriend.then, girl, she really loves you.7. He will make an effort to put your mind at ease and other things put aside. Because a man in love learns how to adapt changes in the name of love.8. If he wants to have intimate moments with you, he loves you. if you cant, he will respect your decision and still stays a gentleman.9. If his an online bf he will fly to see you every quarter, every holiday or any chance he can fly, just to be with you,he will do anything.10. He will spend time, money and effort for you.11. He will shower you with surprises, things you didn't expect for him to do.12. He will always try to make you smile,he will act silly and funny just to see your smile.13. His goal is to make you happy. Because your happiness, is his happiness too.14. He will get mildly jealous over your friends.15. He will ask you to marry him in a most romantic way you least expected. because a man in love will do anything to make the girl of his dreams to be his..So, if you happen to see at least 13 out of the 15 signs above well you got a long hair your bf loves you...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2012):
 You need to talk to him and ask him what is going on. It does sound like the spark has left the relationship and he is not sure what he wants any more. You need to talk to him and get the truth out of him. Maybe the relationship has just falling in to a routine and you both don't make enough effort to keep it alive any more. I guess the only way to find out is to sit down with him, talk to him and tell him how you feel. Good luck.
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