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I TALK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME, AM I OBSESSED?

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Question - (4 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *arriet-Jayne writes:

Everyone thinks im becoming obsessed with my new boyfriend because i talk about him so much, i have known him for over 2 years and were best friends, this wasnt enough and we felt a love for each other so decided to become a couple, i talk about him alot to people but when i ask him if i seem obsessed he says no. im worried he will begin to think im becoming to obsessive or clingy. should i tone it down?

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A female reader, Ms.wayne United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

No dear your not obsessed. I think you are in love. If he is your bestfriend and you two have so much love for each other then there is nothing wrong with talking about him all the time. Plus it's not like you just met him yesterday, 2 years is a while. Toning it down a little too might not be a bad idea. I don't know him but some guys do not like the clingy type. Tone it down juuust a little but still let and show him from time to time how much you love and care for him. =)

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A male reader, Western3589 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

Western3589 agony auntJust dont talk about him so much, its your reletionship not anyone elses. If he does not think you are being obsessive he is probably telling the truth. But if you get signs that indicate he does think you are then tone it down

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

If you just started dating him then it's normal to brag about your boyfriend. Lol! Maybe you Should tone it down a bit but its perfectly normal to brag about your boyfriend but it doesn't make you obsessed. It just shows that you really like him and shows that he makes you happy! I used to brag about my boyfriend a lot too when we started dating so yeah its normal.

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