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writes:I recently saw my ex friend/FWB with a young lady who looked to be 16 years old. I know these days its hard to tell how old a young lady is based on her appearance however this young ladies appearance from head to toe was that of a young lady 15-20 years younger. I keep telling myself it was a young relative but it appeared that he was looking for a hidden area to have sex with her. Mind you I know this person very well, what I saw is not an exaggeration. I also believe she could have sold or brought him pot which they were both smoking together. Would you call CPS or leave the situation alone?FYI here is my back story of my experience with this man. Ironically I updated my question the same week this incident took place. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-could-he-care-about-me-if-he.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way thank you for your input. I do appreciate it and receive it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@serenity80 I agree with you about moving on, I have moved on. Since we live close this is something that pretty much fell into my lap. We are not together, he can be with whom ever he wants to be with. I've seen him with plenty of women after my departure which was non of my business. These women are in for a very rude awakening for what they will go through and I could care less. The difference is these women were clearly of age, this young woman was not. As far as me seeming more psycho than a concerned citizen. I am far from it! I have no one to confide in so I brought my concerns here. I know him well and left out details to protect our identity. I am genuinely concerned about this young lady. This is coming from a victim of sexual abuse.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 August 2011):
 I'd leave it alone. You don't have any of the real facts, only guesses and their biased because of your history with him. Don't get yourself re-involved with this guy, just move on with your own life and disconnect from him. Who the hell cares who he was with and what he was smoking? You aren't involved anymore, so don't get wound up in his drama all over again!
Getting the CPS involved will be one big headache and may end up making you look like an obsessive fool if she turns out to be a relative or of legal age - you're right, it is so difficult to tell and if she looks 16, that's pretty darn close to the legal limit. Lots of people appear young.
Too much room for doubt, I'd just leave it alone and move on. Don't get caught up in him all over again! It is natural you'd be bothered when seeing him with another female, and then one who looks super young at that!! But, don't call CPS, that just seems too much for a situation you're only making assumptions about.
Good luck!
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (15 August 2011):
Obviously you are very upset by this man, but unless this girl is clearly a child or he is in some way exploiting what looks like a young teen then I would say leave it all well alone. It sounds like you need to move on with your life and stop spending your time on this whole issue as it's only you who is suffering, you are also seeming more of a possessive psycho than a concerned citizen.
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