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writes: I really like these two guys but I am now going out with one of them, i still think about this other guy and it feels asthough im cheating on him,even though im not. But even when i go out with someone it only lasts for a month and then i dont know what happens? Please help......=S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): everyone defines "cheating" differently, but in my opinion, there's two types of cheating: physical and emotional. you may not be physically cheating on him, but you are emotionally. in other words, you may not be sleeping with this other guy, but you're thinking about him. you're emotionally invested in him. both hurt a lot for the other person, but if it were me personally, i feel as though emotional cheating is worse. because someone actually having feelings for someone other than me seems worse than meaningless hooking up. anyway, i don't know exactly what your question is, so i don't know if i answered it at all. but that's my two cents on the matter.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Work on your current relationship and go slow just to make sur you really like this guy and have a coffee with the other one just to see if things could work then make up your mind and choose o leave any
good luck
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Try being on your own for awhile and see were your head is. You can't keep fooling yourself into believing that something is when it isn't. Follow your heart. You can fool everybody else with your smiles and laughs and false sense of security but you can't fool yourself. Be honest with yourself. Take some time alone and make the right decision. Good Luck.
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