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I keep getting emotional on the phone to him before he leaves for a long time and I don't want him to think he is hurting me!!!

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Question - (24 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2006)
A female , *uby_candy writes:

I have the most wonderful relationship with my boyfriend but he works overnight and sometimes I'm a week not seeing him..but we talk every night on the phone when he works...I'm 21, and independent, have my own apartment...so it's not a dependency problem...But I've always been a sensitive person and really emotional...I sometimes cry on the phone or the night before he leaves for a long time and it makes him feel bad. I wish I would stop I don't want him to think he's hurting me and try to quit his job... But I can't help it and I wish someone would give me advice on how I can work on it because I don't want this to be the problem in the relationship...Thank you!!!

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A female reader, xLEAHx United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2006):

xLEAHx agony auntHi Ruby,

I know just how you feel,as my situation is similar,yes your very much in love and feel lonely without him and being an emotional person doesn't help the situation..prehaps ask him to try and txt you more often or whenever he can and gets the chance..as you said you don't want to let on to him too much how your feeling incase he quits his job..so maybe just let him know how much you miss him and you'd love to be able to hear from him more whenever he gets the chance by txt or mms voice messaging...just hearing thier voice and them telling you they love you makes you feel a whole lot better..also why not try to find a hobby or interest to try and take your mind off missing him so much..hope all goes well x

xLEAHx

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A female reader, DEBS83 United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2006):

DEBS83 agony auntyour in love thats what the problem is ure used to him been wth you than he wrks so you dont get to see him have you talked to him about this ut i think its the love bug you have got

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