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female
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30-35,
MarieM32
writes:I meet the one I love and he was everything to me at the beginning we're great, we had both been treated bad in the past and he couldn't believe he got me and I couldn't believe I got him!He was so loving to me we spent all our time together as he only lives round the corner from me.he was my dream bf in looks and evryfing.after about 6 months fings started goin wrong he knew he had me and he stopped bein all over me and sayin how lucky he was to have me.he started seeing his friends all the time not telling me where he was goin and switching his fone off and doin drugs!i asked why he was lieing his reply was i wanna see my mates but u go mad about it so i dont tell you.so then i promised that i would be fine with him going out and evryfing i explained i missed him.but he still carried on doin the same thing.i mean most people would say he was seeing someone else but really hes not like that.so then on these nights i started gettin really upset and crying all the time and gettin pissed and then one night i meet dis really nice lad and he really liked me.he came and picked me up in his car and taking me out and telling me to leave him and i kept sayin i will one day.of it werent for him i wouldnt be here because it really hurt me being left at home with no fone call nothing his fone off all night :(!so it made me really happy 2 c him:D he cheered me up and was always a shoulder.but i kept forgiveing my bf and sayin with him giving him evryfing!dis lad i was seeing in the end just said look i wanna be with you and i know your special i cant handle you goin back to him you wanna be or you dont he waited over 5 months!and then in the end i said no sorry im not leaving him he carried on doin the same fing over and over again.i got to a ponit where i couldnt handle it anymore and i got back in contact with that lad he said i did meet someone but i still had feelings for you and we havent even made love or anything and i know its for real.so in the end i gave in and said to my bf i want a break and he didnt really mind.so then me and dis lad meet up he done evryfing he could to make me smile!my bf who i kept still finking bout i still love him so much i fink about him all the time!but i know i cant be with him because of how he is.after a week of meetin dis lad paul started calling texting me and telling me he loved me missed me i meant evryfing 2 me and he dont want to let go!i told the lad i was now seeing that i had not been wid my bf for over 3 months because he asked if i was over himwhich was lie so when my bf texted me one night how he felt i cryed so much and the lad i was seeing didnt understand.even when my ex bf asked to meet me i didnt in the end i gave in and meet me and had sex it felt so right but after there was no affection!i dont know what to do i love my ex so much but this lad im seeeing will give me evryfing and loves me so much HELP????
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reader, agony aunt floss +, writes (29 October 2008):
 Dear Marie,
I personally think your ex doesn't deserve you and that if you keep seeing this lad your just going to hurt each other, so my advice is break it off completely try to avoid them but be civilised. in a few months time you'll feel more confident within yourself and the right guy will come along hope everything goes ok.
.Agony Aunt Floss.
(p.s. if you need any more advice or just need to talk feel free to mailbox me.)
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