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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one seems more serious.Anyway, when I sit with her in class, she wrote on her hand I 3 (heart) and their initials right in front of me! And then she showed me her organiser, which was saying how she's going to a place we used to go together, with this new guy on Saturday. Why is she doing this?I know she's not trying to hurt my feelings, she's not like that, but she's also told me that we're over forever. I still love her and she knows that. Why is she doing this?
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 January 2008):
Tell her how you feel. Let her know it's OK that you're over, but it's not OK to keep bringing up this guy to you. This is a huge form of dis respect. She needs to let you heal and move on in peace.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): well, some times women do things ,that drive men crazy.but they dont mean it. u maybe hurted this gurl badly, so she is she is fighting for her pride.or she still loves u ,and wants to get back.but dont know what she could do. therefore, i think u should try again,tell het that u love her.tell her that u r ready do anything to bring ur great time with each other back.finally, if she refused u would better 4get about this gurl,i know it might b hard on u.belive me even if u couldnt,try to pretend that u are over this gurl.maybe by that time she would do something.....
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