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I still have feelings for this one guy and I can stop thinking about him.

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Question - (17 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *utie0712 writes:

OK. so I know i have asked alot of questions recently but I am so confused. I was going out with this one guy and I loved him like heck. Several of my friends were saying he was going to hurt me even though he said he wasnt. And he hadnt. I was forgetting what all my friends where say cuz as long as I was happy I was fine. Then one night I got a texted saying unless I broke up with him this person was going to kick my ass. I got scared so broke up with him. He was so upset and so was I.

He found a new girl with in a matter of days and I found a new guy. I know i sound like a slut. I still have feelings for this one guy and I can stop thinking about him. What do I do?

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A female reader, Gabbiee. United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2008):

Gabbiee. agony auntHmm well you should say to tell this guy that you still have feelings for that you only did becuase you were threatended too, and tell him you still love him, and in my opinion you should finish this new guy becuase this will make your Ex think that you didnt have feelings for him becuase your already going out with other people, and you should ask your Ex if he still loves you, just tell him it was a big misunderstanding and that he should know that you love him so much that you wouldnt off finished him, and maybe ask him if you could go back to what you were like before, and dont listen to your friends they might be jelous of how much you too were so much in love. Hope i helped (: xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008):

Sorry it took so long. The reason that we possibly couldn't answer at the time is because we just didn't know what to say.

What was this person going to do?! 'Kick your ass.' (?!). Then go to the police if he does. Then they'll be charged for threats and assault.

If you can stop thinking about him tell him what happened. Tell him you still love him but you wanted to protect him.

By this time you've probably already gone through this, but try to stand up for yourself.

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