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writes: I am having a tough time deciding what to do about my ex boyfriend. We were together for a long time...nine years but he told me he was not in love and moved to another city and took up with another girl almoat immediately. I guess I thought that was that and got on with my life. He called two weeks ago and asked me to come and visit and that things were not going well with his current girlfriend. It is a beautiful city that he is from and I have friends there so I booked a ticket. He then called and told me not to come but I told him I was going there on vacation anyway and my whole world did not circle aroung him. I went, had a good time and just got back to a message on my answering machine asking why I did not contact him while I was there. I felt like calling back and saying that him having a girlfriend and the request that I not go might have something to do with it. I feel near tears here because I know him well enough to know that he is not a player. I guess the hard facts are that I still love him but I refuse to chase him. He left me here flat and I find that hard to forgive. If I still love him should I put up a bit of fight to get him back, back off and see what happens or just forget about the whole thing and move on with my life and never talk to or see him again? Any advice appreciated.
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reader, pica +, writes (10 August 2006):
Be strong and move on. It's hard I know but if he's prepared to mess you around this much, he isn't worth it. Personally I'd not be able to trust him again - you responded once but were then rejected. I'd say cut all contact. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): Please move on with your life, your ex seems confused and he should stop playing with your emotions. Please be strong and stay focused on yourself and not the ex who left you in the lurch.
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