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female
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writes:I still have feelings for my daughter's father. He already has a girlfriend in which he's down graded to. I know he still loves him but at this time, he hates me. He's put us in a situation where I have to work over time, sometime more than over time, to maintain a roof over our head (including his two kids from his first marriage), make sure there's food on the table, make sure they have clothes that actually fit, make sure my daughter has enough food on top of that, make sure I pay my bills on top which my other bills I have to put aside because money has run out. His check was only enough for his truck and car insurance....that's it. Then...he cheats on me twice, with the babysitter and a girl that just turned 18. I am so hurt by this but I still have feelings for this man. I just want to move on but it's so hard because he's still in town and has a new girlfriend. What can I do to move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): hun read your own question, Now if ive got this right you are looking after his children? you have to work incredibly hard to support yourself and your own daughter, I havent been in excactly the same situation as you are but a simular one, And you still have feelings for him, My husband bullied me for 6yrs and when he went i still had feelings of guilt for chucking him out for the fact he was living in a crap room e.t.c
But then a wise lady told me write down all the good things and memorys and write down all the bad, Hunny there was not one good thing that i could think of, and he has cheated on you sweatheart the trust must have gone, When i first met my husband he was so nice for around 6 months that was just to get me i fell in love with that person, But that person was most definatly not the true self of the man. You are most definatly worth more than this My husband got a new girl not long after and i live on a very small island and to be honest i felt sorry for her. she left her 4 children for him and now is on her own while he serves 7yrs in prison. you dont have to be hit to be abused it can also be mental abuse, darling my heart really is with you, if you need a chat write me its such a horrible situation you are going through take care xx
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