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*aewood
writes:My friend who is a girl refused to be my girlfriend but we are still friends. But holding her hands does it still signify that i love her because i dont want her to think so. And Although she got a new boyfriend, i still tell her that i love her and want her to be my girlfriend,i expect her to be angry with me atleast but she never is. Why? Reply to this Question
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reader, Rae1031  +, writes (31 January 2009):
She is your friend, she does not want to hurt your feelings. If you continue to act this way, after she has clearly expressed to you that she is not interested in anything more then friendship, you will not even have her as that. Either it will begin to interfere with the current relationship she is in, and although if the frindship is strong enough, she may sacrifice one or two "new guys" if they give her an altimatum - you or them, but eventually you will be the cause for her not being able to hold on to a relationship and find happiness of her own, she will resent you for this and question if you were ever really her friend to begin with. She will let you go on her own. Most likley, way before anything like that happens, your despretness will begin to scare her and she will start to view you as some kind of a stalker in which case she will avoid you at all cost. It is hard when somebody you love does not feel the same way, but what you are doing will never change that. There may be nothing that you can do to ever change that. The best thing you can do is be a friend, respect her feelings and back off. Maybe if she does not see or hear from you for a while she will come looking. If she finds you with somebody else she just may discover that she has some feelings for you after all. You never know, but you will diffently loose her all together if you keep going this route. Good Luck.
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