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writes: Well, I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I've known him for 3 years nearly.. He's kinda cheated on me, and over those 7 months has progressed a side I've yet to see before. He lies a lot. About stupid stuff though! Like, he made up having a brother... then about being on a Wrestling team at his school or something..To the point.. I broke up with him about a month ago, and he cried and what not. But this time I ignored that. I am now going out with a boy name David. I've known him the same amount of time I've known my ex..The only problem is, I can't get my ex out of my head! I'm always thinking of him, though I thought I hated him! I think I'm just plain in love still... Sigh. My question is. Is it natural to still think of your ex's, and yet. Dream about them? I had a dream of my ex last night. Not a sexual one.. just one where he was my boyfriend again. It's really confusing..
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (9 November 2009):
I broke up with my ex over 7 years ago and I still think about him at least once a day. I still dream about him sometimes too.
I don't miss him, I don't want him back, my life is much better since we broke up - but I still think about him.
So yes, I guess it is natural.
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