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writes: Hey, with my partner for 6 years, im not the very confident person but people have said im really good looking towards my partner. he's attractive to me in a bit of an abstract way. my partner isnt well endowed, and that never bothered me at the start, we both agreed its not all about sex. well after 6 years, i still dont know what its like to have an orgasm. lately ive been gettin alot of attention from other males and you'd know to look at them - they have a rather large package. id love to experience something different but i dont want to hurt my partner, we have talked about marriage. he's so good to me but when it comes to sex, id much prefer if he was more experienced (coz they do say its not all about size but how you perform).. is it me or is it him? we've tried every position in the book!! its just not happening... but its great for him, i get him really aroused and stuff but there's nothing there for me... i dont want to be selfish... but is he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): Masturbate! It feels great and it's very normal. I was with my husband for 10 years and the only way he could get me to the big "O" was through oral sex. Then I bought my bullet.....it's my best friend now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Without being too crude, if you want to try out other sizes...get yourself to an adult shop/online shop and theres a whole world of different size and shape vibrators out there. PLus they'll sort out the orgasm side of things too.
A lot of women dont orgasm through penetrative sex alone, we need a lot of attention on the clitoris. Maybe get some books and have a read of them together and try out some new ideas. You need to help him out a bit, if you know what makes you feel good you need to show him how to do it. Im sure he will be more than pleased to pleasure you.
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