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writes: hiya, i have liked a guy for over a year and a half but he is 5 years older then me..at a party last year he ended up meeting my cousin who at that point in time had a boyfriend..i let the guy and my cousin talk coz i thought it was ok..but after my cousin broke up with her boyfriend she started to go to him for comfort...my cousin knew that i liked this guy but she still went on and was talking to him and txtin him...one day she sed that she is gna meet him and i flipped and said, dnt u know that i still like him...she sed no i thought you were alright with what was happenin which was untrue...after that this guy i think has been hooked on her and still likes my cuzin...i try and avoid takin my cuzin to any of the parties i know he is gonna be at and the guy is always askin about her..n it hurts sooo much..i dunno wot to do nemore..shud i tell him how i feel..shud i tell my cuzin???(my cousin still loved her boyfriend even thought she doesnt admit it!!) pls help i dunno wot to do!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): i think you should tell this guy AND your cousin how you feel. but beware... if they both already like eachother and both seem interested, why not let them b together? there will b other men out there. if she still loves her bf, mayb if ur cuz and this guy go out, it myt nt work out. u may get to ask him out again without having the messy part in the middle of confessions to both.
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